questions to avoid this holiday season

and what we'd like to be asked instead

XO,
Erin

P.S. Thanks to my tender, thoughtful people on Instagram who responded to my query and helped build this gorgeous list.

P.P.S. What else would you add/edit to it? Other awkward, painful questions you dread getting? Other big, beautiful rewrites you prefer answering?

P.P.P.S. May you tread gently and generously in the days ahead.